The Odyssey mirrors the concept of hospitality throughout the “adventures of Odysseus, as well as the people, nymphs, gods, and creatures he meets. Whether it be King Menelaus, or the princess or Odysseus himself, everyone is seen as hospitable to strangers. Upon further study into this and discussions in class, I learned that being hospitable to strangers was a customary norm in Ancient Greece, and this norm was so important that it was thought to be maintained by Zeus himself. This is why we see hosts in the Odyssey referring to strangers as Zeus (sure, Odysseus does appear like a god, but it’s not just that he looks good, just the idea that he is a traveler). You were suppose to treat every stranger as a hospitable as possible, because you never know, it could be a god (as we often see in the Odyssey).
But of course there are problems with this system as well. While some guests might overuse this system (like the suitors, which I talk about below), some hosts might overuse this system as well, as seen in the case of Telemachus and Nestor. Upon encountering Nestor, Telemachus found himself with an overabundance of hostility, with Nestor really liking the guy (so he constantly tells him stories and entertains him, which Telemachus isn’t really interested in, but he can’t deny it either). Keeping the idea of overabundance of hospitality, Odysseus begins to question the people who are being hospitable to them-- are they being hospitable because they are nice people or because they are afraid of the gods and the idea of Xenia?
There are limits as well, when the guests overuse this system. This can be seen with the suitors. The suitors have crossed the line of just being guests. I said in class a few days back that the suitors crossed their limits when the plotted against Telemachus (in book 4..?), but when I go back to think about it now, I feel that they crossed their limits by just staying in the palace of someone else for over TWENTY YEARS! But of course, they do get their heads bashed out in the end, just like they deserved.